breaking up

i finally broke up with him. after 2 nights of exchanging text messages (cheap huh? breaking up through sms) i did it!

dec 9, evening
he asked where should we eat on monday, dec 15 for our mini anniversary celebration. i told him he make a plan for us since i was the one planning our potipot vacation on the 22nd. i don't know how the conversation heated up to an argument. i just told him to surprise me of whatever he is planning on. he thought i wanted it to be something big. but i only wanted him to make an effort this time on planning something for us.

dec 10, morning

i texted him, sort of apologizing for what happened last night. and he replied after 3 hours.

dec 10, evening

he was out with his office mates for a christmas party. and his last text was in the afternoon. and it was already past 10 and i was about to sleep but i still haven't heard from him. i called him instead. i asked him if he received the message i sent him. he said he didn't have the time to check on his phone because he was busy. soo busy?! :(

i got mad at him for not even checking on his phone and for being inconsiderate for not thinking that someone could be waiting to hear from him. (was i shallow?)
dec 11, morningi read his message that was sent at 2am. he reasoned that he was busy. AS USUAL :(

i replied that it has always been like that since he started working there. i understand that his job requires a lot from him time. but i am only asking for a minute or two from him.
after an hour, this is what i read on my phone: "d2 na ko office"

what? here i am making a drama and your response is, "d2 na ko office"????
i asked him why he is ignoring the issue.

no response.

3pm, same day.he sent a message that he is going home to antipolo to get some stuff.
i asked him again if we can talk about us.

no response.

6pm

i got home and texted him not to contact me if he'll just keep on ignoring the issue.
he sent a very long reply-that i don't understand the nature of his job, that i was being selfish, childish, and all sorts.

i was only asking for a little time from him - ang magtext lang.

then there, i broke up with him. to give him time to focus more on his job.

and he replied that if it's what i want then he won't contact me until i call him.

fine!